As far as I'm concerned, female Drow are Fighters or Clerics. Male Drow are fighters or Sorcerers. And nothing else.
I think that's a limited view from a time when paladin's could be anything but lawful good.
I also think it would be male wizard and not sorcerer, right? I mean they go through the academy.
But also thinking that drow have no scouts, or assassins sounds very very off. Not to mention that there are other religions for male dominated societies that fight Loth.
To sum it up - the traditional nobles from Menzoberanzan would probably be female Clerics (or to a much lesser degree fighters) and male nobles usually fighters or wizards. But I see very little reason to limit yourself to that... isn't one of the Bregan D'aerthe lieutanents serving Jarlaxle even a Lolth cleric -
https://forgottenrealms.fandom.com/wiki/Rai-guy_Bondalek? I think RA Salvatorre can be trusted as source no matter how odd a male Lolth priest sounds.