Ive done what I'm supposed to do and still cant get my mods to load/work into my game
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Erm . . . no you haven't done what you are supposed to do if you have just installed 241 mods and then tried to play.
Read mod descriptions.
Make sure the mod is for the version of the game you have.
Install a few mods and try the game.
Pay attention to load order.
Just looking at the first four mods you have it wrong. 5e Spells - Larian Durations is a patch for 5e Spells but has not been updated since the end of August. 5e spells is updated regularly and has its own patch for those who want the Larian durations. In either case the patch should be loading after the base mod.
Also your 241st mod is 2e Spells which will, I would guess, mess with at least some of the 5e spells.