the spawn has to be allowed by their master to bite / draw blood from their body. Cazador didn’t consent, so no release from spawn-hood to full vampire.
It shouldn't matter as long as the tadpole allows Astarion to ignore his master's commands. The vampire blood doesn't magically change its properties when the vampire says "I give you my permission".
The truth is, it would be very inconvenient for the devs to make the third option for Astarion, as it would require much more work and it would destroy the narrative choice they designed for him. Becoming an evil full-vampire wouldn't be evil anymore, as it would be enough to drink Cazador's blood. No moral dilemma, no signs that the choice to become a stronger vampire is the evil path - and this is what the wanted to do with almost every companion - evil and good final choice.