I’m in the end of act 3 I think. But I can’t romance astarion

. I don’t know what I missed in the beginning that I didn’t get the right dialogue. So what did you do in the begging to romance him ?
One of my characters utterly failed in the romace story on all companions headed into Act 3 single so just waited for Halsins offer instead.
16 characters I play about with and 15 of them are standing next to Astarion as their partner
though a few were made for other companions originally.
I found a sure fire way to get Astarion on the romance path before the tiefling party I usually get his proposition in 1 of 3 quest areas
:Tollhouse after Karlach has a berserker moment
:The Gur Hunter
:Raphael spawn point by the Windmill
Approval gains -- Druid Grove have Laezel speaking to Zorru
Auntie Ethel tell the whole story on first meeting.
Using the tadpole scenes illithid wisdom vs Goblins -
(also agree the powers could be useful)
Loviatar Priest in goblin camp
If Evil Torture Liam
Kiss Crushers foot if Dark Urge Bite it off make Crusher kiss yours
Just start a fight with Gut "I'm here to kill you "
Get the Necromancy of Thay book from the apothecary cellar
(blighted village)
If level 4 get the Amethyst from the spider matriarch area down the well
hand him the book after putting the amethyst in it.
head to auntie Ethel in the sunlit wetlands
hope you can see through the illusion
because saying Baa to the redcaps nets approval
Confront the Gur hunter up the path near the way point let Astarion do the
talking and agree to his request about killing him.
Usually first conversation with him after the Gur is lets sneak away somewhere quiet.