But the really slow save times are 'normal' ? It is really breaking my game immersion when I quicksave, go on to do stuff, have a conversation and suddenly, after 12 seonds or so, have a giant popup on top of everything saying that the save was succesful. I'd already forgotten that I saved!
I would get that checked with a doctor to see if you have any serious conditions such as sleep apnea or narcolepst if you forget what you did 15 seconds ago.
In all seriousness, I should point out that when you quick save you do not have to wait for it to finish. When it finishes the save, you will load at the exact same spot you started the save.
This means you can quick save before a battle starts, and while it is saving you can start the battle. If you lost, when you load it will be at the same spot, before the battle.