I said just less than a week ago "In another week there will still be no ETA. At some point there will be an internal timeline, with a great deal of approximation; at that point, there will be no ETA. When testing starts, there may be an update on the patch process, but there will not be an ETA. If near the end of the release process Focus lets us know a date they are fairly sure the patch will be released, then there may be an ETA."
If you worked for Larian there would still not be an ETA. You would not get a different answer. There is no ETA because there is no ETA. It is not spin. It is not a question of asking the right person. There. Is. No. ETA. That is a factual and accurate statement of reality at this point.
You have not looked at the support forum for that perfect game, more complex than D:OS but released 100% free of bugs or any issues, that you're not at liberty to mention the name of, have you? Do that, or an online search, and maybe that'll provide a useful perspective so you won't take this so personally.
I read all the posts in the forum. It really isn't necessary to reply to other topics to get my attention, and I'm not going to miss anything based on the reply to field (which I generally don't even look at anyway).