Well simple, prior to the "final" version of the game, I could host the game, then start 3 more instance of the game and connect to myself during character creation.
Therefor, I could in this way chose all 4 characters of mine, what they would be looking like, talents, skills etc.... as I don't like the "default" skills...
Right now, i'm having some sort of difficulty doing that...
directconnect would just stay there and do nothing, and multiplayer, I don't see my own game from another instance... and I end up killing the game and steam