Talking to Nettie and she offers her "gift" to which I accepted and it came up that Shadowheart approves and Astarion disapproves. I then speak to Shadowheart has she has an exclamation mark over her head, at the end of that coversation she approves and Astarion disapproves. Issue is Astarion isn't in my party and I had left him back in the camp, surely party members who are not party to the conversation should have no opinion of the choices made?