This is a conversation I have with Wyll following his encounter with the goblin at the windmill.
Wyll: I will see Spike dead. I will see the land cleansed. And I will keep its people safe.
1. The goblins are a scourge. Let us be rid of them all.
2. A revenge quest? I wouldn’t miss it for the world.
3. You lost your eye to a goblin? That’s hilarious!
4. leave
So, my options are: (1) genocide is okay, (2) endorsing quests of revenge, (3) mocking a man who is sharing a tragedy, or (4) abandon and ignore him? How about: some gentle push-back? Consoling him, by encouraging him to look at and be inspired by the people and ideals he’s fighting for, rather than focusing his rage on the evil he’s fighting against?
Wyll is my favorite character, at least in concept, but I am worried about where this character arc is heading, especially because I cannot seem to be able to provide any pushback: I often end up feeling as though I’m either endorsing his darker impulses, or rudely scorning him when he reaches out. Especially if I'm playing as a good Cleric: as a travelling companion to a folk hero, I would want to help him stay true to his ideals, not encourage him in his rage.
I may be wrong, and may need to go back and check, but I don't think you get to these dialogue options when you refuse to drink with him. And I think when you refuse the drink, you are offered more light aligned responses. Though you do chide him a lot.
BG3 does have a thing where previous dialogue options will affect what options you get later. An example would be threatening Gale when you first meet him and then having the option to say "If it's one thing I don't like, its bloody mages." This could be what's happening here.
I like playing a corruptor character to Wyll personally, with the hope that his story line offers a moment of redemption for him that I can work to redeem my player character. So my character sympathizes a lot with being so desperate you sell your soul in the name of hate. Hence why option 1 or 2 is what I choose lol. Playing this way, you get a lot of opportunities to sympathize with Wyll. While I don't think he's evil, and does have a good heart, I do think his hatred for goblins is just the tip of the iceberg on Wyll's dark side.