doesn't work with ladies though, Tsel:

if a lady says no, she means maybe;
if a lady says maybe, she means yes;
if a lady says yes - she is no lady, whatever your charm <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />

In times of crisis it is of the utmost importance not to lose your head (Marie Antoinette)