spammer (in this context) = posting useless messages or frequent off topic messages.
The grin <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" /> means she was not serious, just giving you a hard time about posting a bunch of questions. An appropriate response would be <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />
<img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/evilgrin1.gif" alt="" />
Anyway, to your original question, check the topic
Tingalf/Marcus/wagon quest (spoilers).
