Ah, no, not offending, it just shows how independant cats are in giving their heart away <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" /> - and I love independance.
Maja (neighbour cat) left her owner and wanted to stay with me, wanted my PC room to give birth to her young ones. The owner was not amused, she took mother and kittens back - Maja returned several times and was so angry with my "betrayal" that she showed her disapproval just like Ferdi in the bathroom. She tried to bring her kittens several times, but I informed the owner always and returned the little ones.
I was sad about the owner's decision, because I believe that love is letting go and giving freedom of choice not trying to force, hold back and keep against will. This is why I let Ferdi go, too - though it hurt a lot <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />
Kiya
