I don't think love hurts - what hurts is not wanting to let go of what is inside oneself: Dreams, memories, fix ideas and emotions e.g.
I'm glad to see Ferdi now and it touches me still every time when I see the loving reunion of man and cat afterwards - doesn't hurt anymore. Ferdi and my Ex are happy with one another <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> - Ferdi decided and I had to follow his lead, was a good lesson in letting go.
Kiya
@Janggut: We're all three on very good speaking terms - there are more ways to keep a good relationship than only on the partnership lvl. In fact some of my ex-partners are good friends of mine, it's always a matter of time <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" /> (my XP). It comes down to one point (in my XP again): Let go, take care of the hurt ego and then look what's left - in some cases a lot was left and this was the basis for a friendship <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" /> (enjoy what I liked and leave the rest up to other females to bother with <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> )
