Kiya did not attack you, she criticized your approach (not your intentions or what you said, but how you said it).
"so I decided to forget the she is a friend and better be neutral towards her."
Then is it really so important to present your side, in a matter that has already been dealt with? <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/question.gif" alt="" />
"Then all of a sudden, DATD posted a hate post full of personal attack."
Hate is beating someone up or killing them because of their race, religion, etc (among other things).
DATD was frustrated or annoyed, and said you were wordy and could come off as arrogant.
"But I have been reading a lot of unfounded and mean posts having at me for no reason at all.
That is why I wanted to make things clear."
Do you
really think rehashing the other topics is going to make things clear?
Are you really so wounded by those 'mean' posts?
