There are a couple empty houses in northern Aleroth, though Joram's cellar is probably handier.
When you die, you must re-load a previous save (so save periodically, after finding great equipment or completing a quest, etc). Also, save before attempting to steal, etc.

Early Starter Tips (NON-Spoiler Version)

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