Arx Fatalis might be everything but not a FPS.
Note that it's the first game I saw, where you cannot compare the weakest attack with the strongerst: For example: at the beguinning, if you attack the goblin with the attack meter barely lit, you will simply die: those attack do no damage. But if you use the strongest attacks, you could defeat the goblin in 2 hits. It's very realistic: one strong overhead strike with a club will do more damage than simply a poke (which shouldn't damage at all).
