I was under the impression that lies begin when Love Stops. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />
How about honesty regarding admitting a lie?
It gives the other side a chance to be forgiving. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
If the one who lied did not care then why lie?
I think that hiding the truth is a sign of caring that the truth might be ugly.
This is not like cheating or betrayal, I mean only innocent lies could be a matter of beautification and courtesy.
In some cases I am aware of, it is even a social trait or system to lie to gain good relations rather than say the truth and loose all your friends none of whom can be perfect.
You too cannot be perfect, so how about telling each other every time we see each other a list of our defects and problems. Truth is not always the best path and avoiding truth is entering into the layers’ zone. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />
My two cents anyway.
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Well ok I think you have a point there, but still, I prefer the truth. As ugly as it is. I don´t like illusions. I want to know what is happening to me. Sorry. It is my thesis the last 2 years and I intend to keep it.
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still <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/offtopic.gif" alt="" />