Thank you for your patience, Egin <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/up.gif" alt="" /> . This leads to my next question: Why is it a problem if a male gamer has a female nick/ava, is flirted at and you feel duped after finding out? Has this something to do with homophobia? (Fear of feeling/being treated like a homosexual?) Or are there other reasons? Please, keep this in mind: Div is my very first forum, so I'm lacking a lot of knowledge in this relationship area.

Could this gender muddle be a result from broken hearts for people making this XP in chat forums, where you flirt and search for mates? I have never visited something of this kind - so, don't laugh about my naivity, please.
Kiya <getting more and more curious>

@Mick: Nope, it was not about my nick - BG gamers know Viconia (my ava) and some male gamers are a fan of her. I recall a gamer telling me he would have liked to take this ava if I had not occupied her already because he likes her a lot. And I understood this simply as a hommage from a gamer wanting to have a connection to this fascinating char from Baldur's Gate - nothing else.

Kiya may be known by strategy gamers having played Pharao. It's simply the name of a noble Ancient Egyptian clan (was in the female section there to choose from)

Last edited by kiya; 18/12/03 07:26 PM.