Why does it need to incvolve brutality ? Why has it to be brutal anyway ?
The same can be asked of the so-called "victim": why ask for something you do not want or cannot really accept? Why ignore warnings? Isn't it self-delusion on the count of thinking oneself "tougher" than one really is?
Come to think of it, there was someone who said, "Remove all the warning labels, and let the problem take care of itself."
Pssst. Why do I bother? This can only get petty and pettier, as many posts have already proven. The level of mud-slinging, though attempts have been made to veil it, is about as subtle and sophisticated as a barbarian invasion anyway. Rather reminescent of an all-girls school I used to attend, really.