There is no need to shoot you Janggut. Some of the things you wrote, are right. I mean we always have to keep in mind that there are in here people with different personalities and origins and we sure have a lot of differences. But I find it at least insulting what you have said about Al. Who said that I (I don´t know about the others but I am sure that Kiya does not do the same although I can not speak for her), comfort Al? Al is not my child. He is a man and I respect him. And he never ever asked my sympathy. It is something that he gained for what he is. Now Al does not need "a mother" and I am sure that you did not mean it in this way. But they way you wrote it gives me that impression. I am not here to comfort him and I am sure that if I did he would not like it.
As for Winterfox I have expressed my opinion to her via pm. And I think that this is something that concerns her. You have to realize though that it is my perogative (thnx Faralas I always like to learn new words since my vocabulary is limited), not to like some people´s ways. And this is not because of Al. Anybody who would be in his place I would feel the same way. Because that is me.
You can find a million excuses for Winterfox (and I am sorry I do not like to talk about a person as if she is not present. In my country we think that this is not polite), including your Asian origins. But those excuses are not good enough for me. I sure like the truth Janggut and I prefer to talk with a person who tells the truth than with a liar. But there is always a choice for a better way to do it. Truth is not altered if you try to express it in a more polite, civilized and gentle way. It remains the truth. No matter what. And if Winterfox still wanted to express her opinion for Al´s work the way she did, she could at least be sensitive enough and send him her opinion via pm. You see? I don´t ask and don´t expect Winterfox to change. It is her choice (although I know for sure that one day she will regret it, but this is just what I think). Respect is what I ask. Respect for all the people in here. She could buthcer Al´s work (I am sorry again but this is how I see it) via pm. I am personally very annoyed to see words and sentences which include a whole world -from the writers perspective- be ripped apart just because Winterfox thinks that she is a good writer. Oh yes I have read her work. And I may respect that she and you and everyone in this forum become from a different culture but that does not mean that I have to like it does it? The way you ask us to accept our differences, it should be the same way that you should ask Winterfox to accept everybody´s feellings. You did not. Your choice. Don´t ask me to make it mine. And if everyone here were like Winterfox, I would not be in this forum. Sorry. This is how I feel.
