i'm sorry if i didn't make myself clear enough. of course nobody will accept my excuse of english being my 4th language? <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Luc, i'm not being insulting to Alrik. Al, if i sound insulting please please please let me know or i might continue without knowing it. ok?

what i meant was for Alrik to toughen up, not to expect friends to defend him (of course he doesn't but i thought he needs to know about it) all the time when he should be the one who's doing it.

now before i blow my head off by going off-topic, i wish the best for Alrik. dude, i was being a bit harsh in my last post because i thought it might 'wake' u up a bit so u can see better how things are. i have an aunt who's like my best friend & she's always a bit harsh at times when she sees that i'm screwing my life up. not that i mean u are doing that.

see why they always say good intentions always lead to hell? Al, i thought by giving u a bit of a 'push', u might be more conscious. guess i did that wrongly.

kiya, didn't mean to be condescending to Al, i was trying to be helpful, in ways that i know.

& that i'm not providing winterfox any excuse either. i was only letting u know about the difference in culture which sometimes can be quite a rude revelation when finding out. such as what happened earlier.

Al, where are u?

to Luc, kiya, Alrik, winterfox; no hard feelings, ok? <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> if u're unsure of what i said, please let me know.

edit: regarding the part where i should've addressed winterfox on how she should accept the rest rather than the rest accepting her, well, please chop my head off for not doing so. i thought she was misunderstood so i stood up & said something about it. i can see from her posts that she understood your points, which is why i didn't address winterfox on acceptance.

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