as what bean said much much earlier, there are a lot of ups & downs in life & this forum being full of real-life people also share the same ups & downs. there are those who felt that enough is enough & left. there are those who persist & stayed. there are those who lurked in the background. .... i'll leave the leaving part to u, jvb. it's your call. but to say that u feel unwelcomed .... now i hope that i'm not the one giving u the bad vibes. if so, please let me know & how & why did i do that.

& as for married life, yeah i guess that can change a person's social life a whole lot. but that is because both partners want it. otherwise, it's no business of theirs to get married & later on bitch about consequences. that's stupidity. a precious thing/someone isn't worth it unless it's worth sacrificing for. & yes, if u don't give up something for what u want, most likely u don't deserve it. u cannot have everything, u know. ask the married people around here; goldy, spick, womble, etc.. they have a lot of wisdom that u can learn.

to make it simple; jvb, stick around, ok? it takes everyone to make this forum happen & believe it or not, u're part of the family!

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