Ok I just read this topic and I am really mad. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/memad.gif" alt="" />
I am mad about Barta.
@ Bronthanian
I don´t think that Barta could ever annoy you. She is always kind with all members here. Which is something you should do too. This is not a way to speak to someone you don´t even know. You came in this forum, you messed everything up, you told us so many lies, you insulted Lynn (sorry Lynn I am not trying to put words in your mouth and I sure don´t know how you feel but this is how it looked to me and how I felt), and after doing all those things you are talking about harrasement?
I am mad about the member who left.
Barta mentioned that a great forum member left. I don´t know If I got it right. And If I am not please forgive me. But If a forum mebmer left us for Bronthanian´s behaviour I am really mad. And If that member is the one that I am thinking of and happens to like him/her a lot too, then I am sorry guys but I don´t want to give Bronthanian another chance. I don´t have any patience with that guy period. I want that member back. Was and is my friend!
I am mad about the lies.
Up till now I was not strict with Bronthanian because I have read that he/she is a 12 years child with divorced parents. I said to myself that he is having a hard time. So I was more than willing to give him a chance. To be in here and have fun. But now I am reading that he lied to us. Is (s)he or is (s)he not a 12 year old kid? Does anybody know? Does Bronthanian even know? And it is not a matter that (s)he did or did not tell things about him/her self. I don´t want to put my nose to anyone´s personals in here but I hate lies. Especially those who are told in order to gain my sympathy.
@ Bronthanian
This is not about spaming. We all spam from time to time. It is about behaviour. Behaviour to all members here. It is not easy to enter a forum comunity and be friends with everyone right away. I know that. You should learn that too. Friendship, even virtual is something that needs time. Perhaps more time than frienship in reality. And it has to be build upon a base of respect, trust, honesty and kindness. You can not force someone to be friend of yours. You can only show your real self and hope that you will gain some friends because they like what they see and want to meet you further.
There is nothing you have to prove to us. Just be you. And if we like you, then we can probaply talk and have fun in here and share things. If we don´t like you then you have to do some serious thinking but not for us. For yourself only. See if there is something you want to change. To be better for yourself´s shake and only for that. Don´t try so hard. It makes things worse.
And If I imagine right you should apologize to some people in here. Your last post for apologies was not honest after all.
Edit after reading «get a life» thread.
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I supposed correct about the member who left. I just read the thread. She was my friend and I didn´t even have the chance to say goodbye. Now I am really mad.
No Bronthanian will not have a second chance from me and I am really sad that he will be runing around in this forum and SHE will not be here. Maybe I am a spamer too. Maybe I contributed in her leaving. I don´t know. I only know that I will miss her.
Last edited by LUCRETIA; 20/01/04 01:08 PM.
