On a personal note,
i don't know who this forum member is,
but if he/she "leaves" just for this one person,
i dont beleive you have to defend him/her in that matter!
that person not only left for that one person , but left everybody else too. Including you and me and everybody else.
So saying " he/she left the forum because of you"
i found this childlish behaviour myself.
i say this because i saw it happen a number of times before on the forum. (but it happens on all the other forums as well i gess (non larian forums))
So this is not directely adressed to you @Lucretia