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@ Dragh <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" />
You can have my absence of faith you can have my everything...
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Where to start?
@ Gal: It's all been said allready <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />. No hard feelings at all, misunderstandings when sorted out shouldn't be something you have hard feelings about.
@ Barta: Even though Luc is great in many ways, she's not several pepole <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />. And I did quit it when Dragh pointed out what it wasn't funny anymore (was going to quit it anyway, but you'll never know that, will you?). And maybe I took it too far... But you can't expect someone my age to know everything (especially not if he never really gets a chance to joke with pepole). Oh, and: Why don't you love me anymore? <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cry.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/evilgrin1.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wave.gif" alt="" />
And for my relationship to alcohol (don't drin, never drunk alcohol (exept for a glass of 0,2% cider. And I tasted a glass of mulled wine at christmass, it tasted like motor oil)) it's very affected by my brother. When he was my age (16-18) and I was 7-9, we were allways said to be very simillar to eachother. And therefore I looked up to him (even thought he wasn't very much to look up to, really), or really, I admired him more than I looked up to him. He was my brother after all. Anyway, in this age it hapened from time to time that he drunk so much he ended up throwing up his guts by plazas and ghetting driven home by the police (and feeling like total sh... really bad the day after). And not only that, it allso turned out he often drunk home-distilled instead of fabric made, and since you never knew what was in these, these were really stupid to drink, if you were unlucky they could contain metanol (1,3 cl kills, you can lose your sight if you drink less). And my father got to know this (think my brother told him), and since he likes to lecture (still does, and he can get really upset for nothing), this really got him going (he doesn't turn to violence ever, but verbally he can get really agressive, save screaming). I was in the room next door to the citchen (where my brother, mother and father was) and heard it all. I heard how my father told my brother he could lose his sight, be bound to a weelchair if not die etc and in my mind the fact that we were very simillar spinned around in my head. I thought I would end up an alcoholic for sure. I was scared to death to be honest. Somewhere there the root to my desition to never try alcohol was sowed. Later when I read about the effects of alcohol (you really get to know the downsides of alcohol and drugs in Swedish schools, since the state wants to prevent addicts as far as possible) and drugs only made me settle for a straight decition: I will never try alcohol. It's not been that difficult to follow it so far.
Übereil
Brain: an apparatus with which we think we think.
Ambrose Bierce
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@ Ube what do you mean that I am not "several people"?
I am sorry about your brother, I hope that things are better now. However this experience you had should make you even more sensitive on that matter. Bad humour in this case is not very much appreciated. At least by me. It seems to me that you have always something to say about everything but my piece of advice is that you should think first and then write. Writing is better than talking IMHO because you have as much time as you want to think before you answer or express an opinion. I am also impressed that you answered to Barta and Gal but you did not have the politeness at least to admit to me that you got out of line with your joke. I said that I am not mad with you but you know something? You make it very hard sometimes with your behaviour.
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Don't hide behind your age Ube, You have still a lot to learn one of them age is rarely an excuse.
It's one of these days...
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Barta said several pepole told me to stop the joke. Yopu were the only one telling me to stop the joke (before Dragh, and as said, whehe told me to stop, I stopped. And allso as mentioned, I was going to stop anyway, which I can't prove though. You'll have to take my word on it, even thoigh I know it sounds like I'm saying it just to get credit).
And now six years later (or is it eight? Well, anyway) things are much better. I mean, he's not as foolish/inexperienced as he was when he was 18 (he's 26, has spent 6 years as unemployed (due to picking the wrong program when chooseing for gymnasium), but has now finally got his gears toghether and started studying in univerity. He's doing quite good too).
And apologizeing is as hard now as it was when I was five and did something bad <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shame.gif" alt="" />. Just as hard..... Even thought I only have to write it.............. IMSORRYIGOTOUTOFLINEWITHTHEJOKE.
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Brain: an apparatus with which we think we think.
Ambrose Bierce
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Don't hide behind your age Ube, You have still a lot to learn one of them age is rarely an excuse. I have a lot to learn because of my age <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />. And it might not be an exuse, but it IS a reason. Sometimes... Or maybe it's just a bad exuse, I don't know, I'm too young <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />. Seems I allso still have problems admitting I'm wrong... Maybe it's not my age, maybe it's my personality. I'm a bad person <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cry.gif" alt="" />! Oh well, have to get some food if I'm to survive the evening (footballgame and bad lunch and all). Übereil
Brain: an apparatus with which we think we think.
Ambrose Bierce
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Thank you Ube. It is not so hard to say I am sorry after all hm? I don't think you are a bad person. You just have to work and change a bit some things. Maturity comes with experience.
Now guys what do you say if we change the subject and say how handsome Dragh is? (My all time fav. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" />)
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stop your making me blush <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shame.gif" alt="" />
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That is lovely! At last! A guitar player who is blushing <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Don't ever change Dragh <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />
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@Dragh Fweet-Fiou *the girl whistles*
@Ube Everybody always have things to learn and work on themselves, whatever their age and experience are. We just have to try to do as good & well as we can. And I can say, you learn much more when things blow up in your face. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" /> (The girl's horns & pointy tail disappeared only not long ago. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shhh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> ) But it's not just to live experiences, it's more how much you can gain from it that will make you advance. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Drinking... it's weird how alchool is valorised as much as vilified. As for me, I'm just a quiet social drinker; I burnt myself to alchool in my crazy days (mistaking my glass for a friend's) and now only bear beer or pretty diluted stronger alchool. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/evilgrin1.gif" alt="" />
@Spick Man, I hope it's just the parasol that gave you that skin tone... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />
LaFille,
Toujours un peu sauvage.
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To all that made posts in here the last few days: I'm glad this matter is solved, and I'm also glad that Spick took away the tension by showing us a picture of a lobster <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/evilgrin1.gif" alt="" />
@ Luc I have an alcoholic father too, and when he came home drunk he used to beat up us and my mother. Now he is dry for many years. He knows that he made some terrible mistakes, and I forgive him. I can't stay mad at him forever, he is trying soo hard to win my love back. But all that don't take away my pleasure of drinking a white wine, or a sweet beer (Rodenbach, Alexander, Grand Cru, Belle-vue mmmmmmm <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> )from time to time. Anyway, it's your choice.
@ Üb Like Dragh said, don't hide behind your age, but try to learn from it. And btw, we all still love you <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/kissyou.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />
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@ Gal Red wine and some beers is a great pleasure for me. I just don't get drunk.
Spickey is a Rock Lobster. (Do you remember B52's song?)
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Lobster!!..you cheeky Monkeys!..That's a cracking tan i'll have you know! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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hey girls, spicky feels left out after all of u showered so much attention at super handsome & hunky Draggy. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />
so let's give ol' spicky some too ...
Fweet-Fiou!! *following Fille's whistle but .....*
SPLAT!! *ooops!! janggut accidentally spit at spick!*
RUN AWAY!!
on the beach with beautiful sunset, people can see a lobster chasing a beard.
......a gift from LaFille......
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All i did was get this thread back on topic and i'm being lambasted by everyone and their dog!..it's just not fair i'm tellin' ya! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cry.gif" alt="" />
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awww... come on, spicky. u know who's our fav englishman! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/kissyou.gif" alt="" />
we love u too! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
*hands Strongbow to spick* hope that will make u calm. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />
......a gift from LaFille......
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Woopdedoo! As many of you will have undoubtedly noticed, I am back. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wave.gif" alt="" /> And it seems it's my turn to show you some piccies. I always thought to find myself some activities, that will make me more focused, something that gives peace to my mind and at the same time some physical training to my body <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/silly.gif" alt="" />. So, for the last year I was involved into aikido training and even acquired 6th kyu (it's the lowest rank in aikido) Here are some pictures from the two weeks camp we had in july: training with me in the middleguess who is to the rightthe falling dude is me, the other one is our sensei(3-rd dan)another sensei(1-st dan)And absolutely incredible thing happend when we less expected it - we had a guest from Finland, his name is Jussi Vehviläinen (5th dan!) showing katas with swordJussi againAnd I missed you all <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/kissyou.gif" alt="" />.
"Endure. In enduring, grow strong."
-Githzerai adage.
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hey Egin!! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wave.gif" alt="" />
good to have u back here again. will look at those pix later on as my line's sooo slow.
great that u're doing ok & shaping up & keeping fit. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/up.gif" alt="" />
......a gift from LaFille......
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Ahhh-So! Nice to see u in the flesh Egin me old mucka <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/up.gif" alt="" /> looking good dude. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wave.gif" alt="" />
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@ Spickey ... but I said that your tattoo is great!
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