It is a roleplaying game you know, if you feel guilty about Jaheira and you are more than neutral aligned you should take her, on the other hand if you are a little less then neutral you should drop her and get Viconia, after all you don't really care do you ?
If you can not seem to fit in either if these two categories then you must be of the wrong alignment all together.
Well, my character is good in the sense that he doesn't steal, won't kill merchants on the road for money, and helps out those in need. He's not good in the way many of the other good NPC's seem to be - self righteous prunes. None of the "evil" characters seem that bad to me though...none complained that I had to rescue Imoen, none tried to convince me to hold Nalia for ransom (she probably would get me that 20,000 gold easy), none have betrayed me, and none have really disobeyed me...in fact, I am questioned more by the "good" characters. Korgan didn't even kill Anomen when Anomen insulted him. It's still early in the game though, maybe this will change, I don't know. I will say the "evil" people seem much more relaxed and fun, and willing to crack a smile now and then. The "good" people seem to be into patting themselves on the back and being depressed. Not very commendable traits, and I don't really trust them as much.
What I am trying to say here is you are the person you do the thinking you do the emotions and as such play the game the way that it suits you.
Heh, then I'll just choose like I would in real life, and choose whoever is a little nutty and willing to have fun. I mean, just because I'm a nice guy doesn't mean I can't have fun with evil people...and if I rejected anybody because I thought I was so much better than them, would I truly be good?
I'd drop Anomen for Viconia, Minsc for Korgan, and Aerie for Edwin
That's about what I'll do, though I'm gonna keep Anomen and drop Jaheira, and what 'till I find this Edwin before deciding if I'll drop Aerie...maybe she'll have pushed me too far by then, but as of now it's pretty fun to have her around (like taking someone sightseeing).
In case anyone's curious, this is my first time through (and I've never played the original).