When you get mad at a guy, whether it's a friend or someone your dating or even married to, which road to you take? Avoidance or confrontation?
When i really like someone, i prefer the confrontation.
I tell him that i am mad at him and why. But i never scream, i rarely lose my temper.
After the confrontation, we can be friends or lovers again.
If i don't really like the person, i don't want to waste my time and my energy, so i choose avoidance.
But sometimes, i also choose avoidance with a lover, just to make him think that i don't love him anymore and make him really mad.
Not talking to someone during two or three days is a good punition.
That was my point of view.
Barta
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