I hope you can understand my english, isn't the best, didn't spoken and wrote it for round about 9 years. If you find mistakes, feel free to revise me.
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Hmm, its difficult to say for me. In the most cases i prefer to say, what's wrong with me and what i mean of the concerned person.
But sometimes, i'm not able to do this. It's mostly, if i dont know the person really good (i.e. a colleague of me, i never spoken with, except Good morning...). Then i really don't know how to say it. Should i go to him and say him exact what i think of him? Ok, that is the honest way (and i try to be always honest if possible), but a hard one too. I'm trained in diplomacy, but sometimes i can't say things in a roundabout way and then i go to avoid any future contact with this person.
In my opinion my behaviour depend on three things: the size of the breach, the "knowlegdement" of the concerned person and the ability to speak with the person face-to-face (cooperativeness).
