it's good in a way not to get married too young as we all know being young often times means being stupid & hot-headed as well as blind-lust-driven. one has to be really sure & committed not to back out when there's any sign of trouble or just that there's no more steam in the relationship. if u're not sure where u stand in that relationship in the next say 40 years, then maybe u're not ready for something that serious. there are people who may think that marriages are archaic & not necessary but i feel that if u are serious enough to make a relationship work u'll put up with all that is in any marriages; vows, ceremonies, etc.
just my 2 cents. by the way, i'm still single so spick & womble & DAD can say something really solid on the married guys side. how about views from married ladies? where's lostlady?