Hi there Mickey... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wave.gif" alt="" />

I followed both of your topics and finally decided to enter the discussion after all ...! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/think.gif" alt="" />
Better late than never, right <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/question.gif" alt="" />

I really don´t have THE Answer to neither of your questions, but the thing I can give on your oh so young way is... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />
Always follow your heart but also listen to reason as well !

Marriage is a very serious thing and there is also a thing called divorce !
So think about that !!!

Concerning your question about Avoidance or Confrontation?
It definitly depends on the person, don´t you think ?!? <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/suspicion.gif" alt="" />
What does it help you to know how 1000 women think, if you dont know how that person in particular you are interested in thinks ??? <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/think.gif" alt="" />

But if you really want to have individual meanings ... well this is mine :
A person I try to avoid "in any situation" ... can never be a person I am in Love with !!!


"negotium perambulans in tenebris" She acquired her characterization as a winged demon of the night (Talmud), as dangerous vampire and succubus (Zohar), as mother of the incubi and as screeching night-owl (Bible). This Lilith -- the Merciful One save us!