i'm sorry to hear about your dearest friend, kiya. no way can i ever imagine how it feels like to see your favourite person in such state. & yet she gives u the kind of hope & radiance u never thought would come from a bed-ridden person. i would love such person dearly as well.
u're an angel, kiya. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
& as for that issue where the guy who would abuse his new organ(s), well the best we can do is advise him but not deny him treatment when he needs it. we're humans, not God so better not play mixed roles in things like these.
& as for morbo's don't-die-too-soon ideal, well better have a happy than a long life. what's the point of having prolonged life only to suffer & linger on in pain & what-not? i've seen many relatives who are like that; rags to riches & for retirement life, all the money instead of enjoying it with travels, holidays, etc, they get to spend the money on cancer treatments & such. just to prolong life. do they get to enjoy it fully? i don't know. either they can't eat this or that, or they can't do certain activities that they love, etc .... .
well maybe i'm just too young at 29. i have not taken enough salt to know life at that stage. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/think.gif" alt="" />