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Bit of personality and looks. The attraction has to be there. You cannot ignore that. Money don't matter. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />

I have to criticise the constant making of these polls. There is no stark choice in relationships. You have to be a bit experienced and a bit of the other. (knowing the actual person helps a bit <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/stupid.gif" alt="" />) It all depends on the person, really. Every woman I've met has been treated differently due to personality and what I've learned from previous relationships. Never shag (or try to) an old friend either. Its always a disaster. Honestly Mickey, if you want a woman so bad get off your [nocando] and go out instead of being glued to your computer. (a little friendly advice)

'sides, ya think too much! Ever read Mea's joke in the jokes thread. "Do you want 2 or 4 lanes on that bridge?" Basically, you have more chance of growing a third arm than understanding women. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />

That's about all I can offer. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

Do no... I personally have been attracted from a person that was totaly ugly (or so other people thought so) just because I liked very much the way he was thinking and the way he treated me. The way he listened to me.

But I agree with the computer thing. You have to get out people. It is the only thing to meet your possible mate. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wave.gif" alt="" />

Heh, I reckon that's the male/female difference there Luc. I've never known one guy (in conversation with other men of course) who never took notice of how a woman looked at least a little bit. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />

Yes I agree. Women and men are different in this thing. A woman can fall in love with a man and her friends puke when they see him but in her eyes he would be the most beautiful creature in this planet.

You know I have met some very handsome men and when I tried to make a conversation with them just covered my head in order to avoid rocks falling from their mouth... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> I have met others that they find the things that I like stupid and show no respect of what I like. Those I kick them with my high hills boots <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/badsmile2.gif" alt="" />
Men on the other hand can bare sometimes low intelligence if they see a beautiful face/body in a woman. Even for one night. This is not bad, don´t get me wrong. It is nice to observe such things <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Just from a distance... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/evilgrin1.gif" alt="" />

Yup, the old 'one eyed monster' makes us do terrible things. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" />

well, I've known a woman who was ... not good looking, but she was married and had children - there must be something else apart from her look. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />

The look of a woman has to do ith [i9sympathy[/i], at least in my case. It's not necessarily beauty, but rather something that evokes a feeling of sympathy in me - as a result I prefer pretty women. I do draw a line between beatuy and pretiness there, it's sometimes delicate, but in my view it exists.

You're giving me this advice after I come back after not having been online much for a while? <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

I don't want a woman so bad that I made this thread. I made this thread because a friend of mine currently has these two choices, and I was curious if people would agree with the advice I'd been giving her.

I know you are joking here Woomble but if I agree with you, I have to admit (and you too) that men think with that "one eyed monster" and that they barely use their brain. So... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" />

@ Mick
There is no way that your advice could be right or wrong in this case. Because as far as relationships concerned sometimes logic is the last thing that moves your actions. Things can not be planed in such matters. I would say to your friend just to follow her heart. Only time will tell if she did the right choice. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />

I see. Sorry dude. It looked like it was you looking for advice. Hell, what do I know? <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Luc: That 'part' of the male anatomy serves as our brain until we get to about 25. Speaking personally I think it continues in some people. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />

What I mean is that they have been in relationships and have seen what can go wrong and the causes. They can foresee problems will be able resolve them before they get out of hand. With each relationship, you learn a little more. With practice, you can be with whoever you want (who wants you too) and survive any problems life may throw at the two of you.

Basically, they're less stressful in the long-term, assuming your personalities mesh for that long.

...and nobdy ever replies to me...

@ Lews

Personality <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

lews, there's this phrase from the bible that says, the manner of a person, even a child can be known from the way he/she acts & speak. well something like that as i cannot remember the actual words.

so Luc is right. personality is the one. that skin-deep beauty will only last as long as your eyes can see but once that leaves your sight, the lady's words & manners will sink into your mind. as for me, i always let her speak while i observe her words & manners & reactions. maybe i'm just too passive in observation. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />

mick, u're a good friend. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

personally, i don't go for beautiful women, rather ones that would
1. speak to me
2. show interest in what i say & think
3. can hold a conversation for more than 1 hour

<img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" /> yeah i know, i'm talkative.

Welcome in the Club. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />

and me!


umm. does this mean the Bible is saying I am a rude and obnoxious person (even me, a child) from how I act and speak? <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/suspicion.gif" alt="" />

all talked out & done in PM. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

since i know jack squat <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />
experience is the application of knowledge <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/badsmile2.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />

is that what jack squat told u, virgo?

yeah Jack Squat is close buddy of mine and other such friends as well <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/silly.gif" alt="" />

or: ...the victory of reality over planning <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />