"I saw "experienced" as healthy relationship, but possible conflicting personality and "knowledgable" as perfect friend but likely to stuff up relationship-wise." handefood

HEF, do u mean knowledgeable person tends to have pre-conceived ideas on how to 'handle' relationship though those ideas may be damaging, especially if they're myths? won't it be better to just admit that one doesn't know & be willing to be taught to relate to the other person one desires to be attached to? heck, one has to start from 'no prior relationship' to be where that experienced person is.

what i mean is that either the person u want to be or u expect from the other party will have to learn to be realistic & patient for the other person to fully develop a better understanding. hence more intimate level of relationship. well ..... u know. *shrugs*

if there is willingness from both parties on being attached & committed emotionally, then there has to be willingness to endure whatever obstacle that will come to the relationship. if the bind doesn't tie, then it's no bind at all.


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