Barta, I know similar things about what you wrote (your colleague) - from members in my library - from both sides: those who wanted to help and those who were wrongly accused. It's a difficile thing. Specially when second hand persons start to meddle and spread undigested, misunderstood rubbish <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> - the only reliable source is the 1st hand person, no one else.
To get to the root of this only one thing can help IMO: contact the first hand person and therefore get the firsthand info - this can clear up a lot. Silence, rumours, insinuations, gossip, tattle-tales cause a lot of harm - raises distrust and seperates people.
Kiya
Forgot edit: I hope this forum is not going to change into a "court" - I would consider it terrible if the stakes are built up and the fire set to it. Please, let the persons involved solve it. Only they have the full information <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/puppyeyes.gif" alt="" />
