The only thing I can help you with is convincing you not to leave, to many great members have left like BG for several reason concenring the forum or not. I wish all those oldtimers would come back, I bet 99% of these forums would wish the same if you left.
I haven't had any such PM's and if I would have such, It would have upset me to, its a very cowardish thing to do.
SO if anyone gots a problem with me, please PM me. Just confront the person you have a problem wiv directly.