hello Al,

the fact that u're so open about your emotions shows us much that your situation isn't as bad as it seems. it's just that emotions tend to overblow things a bit by giving u false perspective on things. that's why perfect balance of head & heart is needed. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> i'm sure u know that.

Luc got it right when she said the phrase, "love yourself".

that's what my teacher told me way way back in my schooldays. *dang! i feel so old <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> *

i never appreciated the wisdom in those simple words until i realised that i had no self-confidence. i think it was worse than that. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/think.gif" alt="" /> oh well, best not to think too much on it.

Al, do find out more about your 'burden' & cast it aside. once it's off your back, u'll love the new-found freedom. get a friend (or two) to help u out.

there's more but it's too personal to be mentioned here. u can always PM me, Al.


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