Larian Studios Forums General Chat The self-confidence thread.

this is getting more & more hairy by every post. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/disagree.gif" alt="" />

dudes (plowking & womble),

no need to attack byblos's beliefs. fair enough u mentioned that u don't buy it but let's not put him down further below than where he is now.

byblos, so u're a bit angry at some of our comments but hey, we're trying to give u our opinions, share a bit of experience & lessons learnt, so please don't bite us. calm down a bit, ok?

so a priest is not someone u trust. at all. i got the message. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />

byblos, u're not thinking straight. not enough. so yes, that girl is important to u as life itself, & so is God. u have three things that need to be top priority;

- the girl
- God
- life (ok, so maybe not)

what does God tell u about the girl? let's say He told u to just let her go & go on, would u? let's say later on, that girl will put u on a spot & ask u to choose; her or God, which one?

& as for your silence, what do u mean by that? that u don't know how to express your emotions? u don't know how to say it out? is it very hard for u to tell people or her how u feel?

is there anyone u can talk to? it's obvious we cannot help u other than giving u advises, which most of the time can be very harmful since we don't know u or how to help u in your situation.

at the very least, u have taken the first step in getting better; admitting that u have a problem. the next one will be to determine what it is. it may be your behaviour or your mindset. it may be the situation that makes a small matter worse. since none of us are there with u to know the situation better, we can't tell.

& talk of friendship with God, i don't gloat about it but it doesn't mean that i deny it. so no point bringing up God issues here. it only brings out the ugly in us whenever we try to engage in that topic.

& again, byblos, u can always PM me.

HEF, thanks for respecting differences in beliefs. u're the dude. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/up.gif" alt="" />