Before MT I just sat in my room by myself and did nothing! I was never happy before her, now ive lost her and have to get a job!
Maybe the people at your job can help you? It can be a good place to meet people.
Clubs?! YOu are outnof your mind if you excpect me to go to a sick night club, Id rather be alone then surround myself with all of them whores.
It's each to their own. I like clubs for the music and the energy, not the people. If you like other places, go there instead.
I think you guys are comparing your stories with something that happened to me in the past, I had a girl before MT but it was so wrong, we called it love but it was lust and Im afraid I turned her into a slut.
So you stuffed up. Get over it. Learn from it (which it sounds like you have). You didn't make her do what she does. She did. If she didn't sleep with you, someone else would have been the first of the long line.
I know what I had with Alex was love, not lust. If it was just lust, I'd have left her a lot earlier.
Now Imageine if that happens to MT, ... she hasnt done anything wrong!
No, but she's not yours to protect any more. She is her own person and will make her own decissions. You can't look after other people who don't want to be looked after. You'll only hurt yourself trying. If she comes to you, by all means do what you can, but if you chase her and try to protect her, she'll push you away more and you'll hurt both of you. Also, the longer you try to keep her close in your life, the longer and more it will hurt.
She hasnt had much experience with guys and easily falls for the hes sweat trick, she thinks every guy is sweet because she is so easily fooled... and soon shes gonna fall for it and its gonna hurt us both BAD.
I'm sorry, but this is life. You just have to learn when people are trying to [nocando] you over. No one can teach you, you can only learn from failure. She will find someone else because she's going through the same thing as you, and she has less experience behind her so there's a good chance she'll stuff up. All you can do is let her and be there for her if she comes back for comfort.
It's not what you want to hear, but the best thing is to look away and put some space between the two of you.
