Hmm-a great many "Quests" apparently are so Linear that you can screw up
very easily without ever knowing that you have. I never met Jake's Wife
or ever knew about taking Flowers to his grave but I did Kill Jake!
Now I'm wondering about all the other things I have most likely "Missed".
The "Only" thing I ever saw with His wife was a cut-scene where Jake tells Her
-"Come with me to the Grave" and off they go---and that was all I ever saw.
Weird stuff.