I am very new here, but Setharmon is whole heartedly correct.
I know loss and there is a lot one has to deal with.
If one is lucky other family members will help take care of matters, but that usually isn’t the case.
Sadly, the spouse is the one who has to handle everything.
From closing and transferring things, to having to fill out piles of paper work from uncaring people who don’t care about that person’s loss at all except that they get their jobs done.
And finally when all of that is finally taken care of weeks, even months later, they come home to a house that now feels less than it used to.
Tsel
