Dear Lucretia

[color:"orange"]Viper had posted a very serious fact in here but no one seems to care.[/color]
I did not react to Viper’s post but it does not mean that i don’t care !
I did not react for several reasons.

First : I did not think that Viper was expecting answers to his post.
I thought that he just wanted to inform the forum members about people telling gossips and he also wanted to say how much he was mad about that.

Second : A lot of people don’t care about the gossips.
They feel that they are not concerned by this problem and they say/think : « Why are you bothering me about the gossips, it is not MY problem, it is Your problem ».

[color:"orange"]I agree with Viper and I believe that this should stop. It happened in the past again with several forum members (the old members should remember, they do not need me to remind them), and again apart from some upset in the forum nothing happened.[/color]
I agree it SHOULD stop but it WILL never stop.
There is no solution to this problem. We have to deal with it.

[color:"orange"] One thought is those people who gossip should be confronted. I can not see some other way for this to stop.[/color]
It is not a solution because when one try to confront the people, the first one say : « I told you the truth, the other one is a lyer » and the second one say : « I told you the truth, the other one is a lyer ».
It’s impossible to know the truth.

I had a problem with gossips some times ago. It made me feel bad and it hurted me a lot.
I have made a topic about it but just a few people cared about the problem.
I made a copy/paste of the bad PM and i sent them in a mail to a Larian mod.
In his answer he told me how he felt sorry for me but he could not do anything because it was about private messages and not public messages.
He also told me that he has had personnally this kind of problem and that the best thing to do is to forget about it.


@ Stone

[color:"orange"]Why should i care? I do not gossiping, not in the Forum Part, not in PMs. Nobody of the people i changed PMs with try to gossiping over other members. So if you, Viper or Lucretia, have informations about this so, confront.
But i will not read such posts longer. Every time there is a little peace in the Forum, there came a "News" like this and the rumours go round.
Dont make such insinuations, if there something happens tells it laud and clear.[/color]
I can’t imagine that you could be gossiping but you could also receive one day this kind of bad PM.
It’s not funny at all.


@ Alrik

[color:"orange"] Well, I don't gosdsip, too, but my intuition says me that I might be the subject of the gossip.[/color]
Any forum member might be the subject of the gossips.
The person who sends gossips just want to hurt the people and he/she also expects that the gossips will be spread in the whole forum for making the people hate each other.

Barta