I know a lot of females who aborted and those who didn't. I wish, they would freely have the last word as you said, Übereil. It's not that easy: Morals, religion, men, authorities, laws => all want to decide FOR them. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/memad.gif" alt="" /> - and if I think of those communities "right for life" who even KILL docs who do abortions => I get really mad! Kiya
I aborted - and it was my best friend, a female who is strictly AGAINST abortions, who held my hand and accompanied me during all 3 steps. Her religious belief and her friendship towards me had a strong inner fight. She was able to put aside her belief and help me as a friend. And our friendship did not break - her pregnancy was a very difficult one, her baby nearly died. She was very ill and I took my vacations to help her and her husband take care of the baby until she was out of danger. See? Now would you say in this case, it was a case of right/wrong?
Did I ask her for help? No, I didn't want her to be in this inner conflict. She offered her help - and she was great in that.
