A good leader should make sure things are done properly, organised and efficient. Feeling the desperate need to be 'loved' by co-workers sounds to me like the person has an underlying attention-seeking problem and should seek help. Or they shouldn't be in charge.
" Road rage, air rage. Why should I be forced to divide my rage into seperate categories? To me, it's just one big, all-around, everyday rage. I don't have time for distinctions. I'm too busy screaming at people. " -George Carlin
