Thanks for answering, Cleg. Yes, I know ladies myself who bore these scars, in my therapy group (Gestalt <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" /> ) My XP from that time => each one had felt terribly alone, even though they had support. Alone during their decision process, alone during the steps they had to take after they had made their decision - alone afterwards. I think the XP of having aborted is a faithful "silent companion" throughout some of their lives. Scars. Therefore these ladies are in need of support - after abortion. Kiya
