I once wrote an unfinished article fpor RPGDot's "Alrik's different angle" (which has died down since my in-famous KOTOR article <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/badsmile2.gif" alt="" /> ) in which I basically wrote that since compiuter gmes developers are mainly male, computer games are mainly made for males. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" /> Or in other words : what women would find important in computer games is rarely be seen, because programmers, artists etc. are to a great deal male.
From that point of view, I'm not surprised about what you just wrote about romances in BGII. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />