When my youngest female cousin - her name was Elena - had died, she was *very* young, then, participated in the Grundschule (elementary school), there were the usual Meal after the funeral - that's tradition here. I'd call it "Remembrance Meal". During the meal children were running around, playing, like they ever did, like there wasn't so much sorrow around us, then.
I said to my aunt - Elena had been her daughter - "if Elena was still with us, she would love this, running around, playing, like she ever did." And she agreed.
From that day I think that it always is a good idea to keep good memories of a lost person - reminding what the person liked and perform that.
If I would die, I would rather make some jokes to you to show you that there is more than that ... I wouldn't want you to completely cover yourself with grief and sorrow. How would a Jester be liked to be remembered ... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />
So reminding my self of these jokes Kira liked ... is to me the possibly best way to keep her in good memories : I find a thing that she would've liked and laughed about - and remember that.
Like this "dancing Jesus". <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />
Alrik.
