I do agree that true love is hard work....
I also believe that the recipe (shortened version) is 2 people trying to be the person of the other one's dreams.
and i agree with the part where you said, if you cant live with the person forever, RUN.... unfortunately its not always that easy to run... often you only see the full person after a long time... by then you may be fairly dependent in that relationship..... but i do agree....
I think in that situation, you do "nothing" (not visibly at least), but without drawing attention to what you are really doing, you work on becomming independent, and keep your focus at the end of the tunnel
I agree that all the things we said previously here, are things that you do because you love the other person....
Even when you love your partner dearly, you dont always know how to react to their needs and emotions.... and that is why i started this.... in an attempt to find out.... and also in an attempt to make someone else understand... If 1 person can make his/her partner smile because of this thread, then i will also smile.
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When we walk in a crowd, i want to hold hands, or have our arms around each other, i want us to look at the people and feel lucky to have each other, i want us to smile when we see a sign of a hardship that we have been through, because we have survived it.
When we talk, i want us to talk about the small things, the big things, i want us to share our feelings, not only about each other, but also about others, to tell each other of the people we have met, how we reacted to them, what we felt for them (even if its more than it should be, because this builds trust)... I want us to learn something new about each other every day...
