Larian Studios Forums General Chat Chat (Anything) What i want

O.K. this calls for a round of Hugs for everybody....well those that want 'em anyway! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/stupid.gif" alt="" /> ..."Gather around for a BIG group hug!" <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/kissyou.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/XmasJump.gif" alt="" />

Count me in! I need it this moment very much! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Especially for you Luc my dear.... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/kissyou.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wave.gif" alt="" />

<img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" />

That tickles!!!!!! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" />

@ luc, maybe it will work, but i have the feeling that he just never in his life had a lot of affection in his youth.... so maybe its just normal for him to not give hugs and kisses...

@ Lady Rain
That is BS! My mother never gavez me hugs and kisses. She never went to the doctor with me when I was in pain, because "when you're not half-dead you're not sick", I never saw her kissing or hugging my dad or anyone else for that mather. A few years ago, when I came back from my work (I was away for a few day for training) I thought she could use a big hug and when I did she stood there with a look on her face like "what the hell is she doing??". My mother had frozen up! Or maybe she's just emty inside. But I need my hugs and to give my hugs to my hubby and my son.
I like to be kissed and hugged. My childhood has nothing to do with it. So I think your hubby needs to relax a little and warm up. One of these days, you are gone with another man because this one is prepared to give you the love you need so much. He should really watch out, because there is plenty more fish in the sea!! If you catch my drift...

@ gal'
I know he needs to warm up... but he has always been like that.... since the day i met him, he was never the huggy and kissy type...

Not the type, he almost looks like me, never was the affective type, believe me - sometimes i miss these kind gestures so much and i have no one to share my feelings - maybe he just don't know how to show his feelings, i was into this way but now i'm changing a lot, changing my way of thinking - and i saw the things can't do like that, the life can't be withou emotions, without people, withou love. If you want you can change how he show his feelings to you, at least with you, now with other people is more hard - heheheh...

I still believe that he miss you when you are far from him, and i still believe he miss your kindness just don't how to show you this.

ahh true love...

"to dream of riches, that is the dream of beggars
but true love, that is the dream of kings..."

which reminds me of a wonderful message i got from someone a long, long time ago:

"some have it for a lifetime,
some but for a day
love isn't something you measure that way

nothing is forever,
forever is a lie,
that's why you have to treasure each day that passes by..."

Maybe it will work, maybe it wont. But the point is that you will force him reconsider his whole life. What we do not have in our childhood is usually what we miss the most. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />
Good luck and do not give up ok? Remember that you diserve your hugs and kisses.

Oh, i demand them... no matter how much fuss i get about it <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

In anycase, i have a fox-terrorist that is always willing to stand in for any amounts of hugs and kisses <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" /> (she is currently playing hot-water-bottle on my lap and making sure that i KNOW of all my bruises and scrape marks - i slipped and fell in mud when we got home tonight)

But other than that at least i can say one thing.... I have never been abused in any way (emotionally or physically), and he has always been very protective over me (not over protective though.... the moment i say enough... it stops instantly)..... which is more than a lot of women can say in south africa.... men here are very prone to get agressive.

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I want to be the moonlight in your darkness, i want you to be the sun in my garden.

When you feel sick, i want to be the medicine that makes you better, the soft pillow on your bed, the flowers on the night stand.

When you seek happiness i will be your map, even if the road doesnt lead to me, it will lead to your smile, and therefor to my smile. Wehn i seek happiness i need you to be my lantern, to either show me the way, or to shine your light on my map.

(my personal thoughts on the last phrase.... If someone seeks happiness, it wont help to try and point the person towards yourself.... That wont lead to the other person's happiness..... BUT if you let the person find their own happiness, while you follow to offer support (light), you will be there when the person finds it.... and your chances of being the foundation of your partner's happiness is almost assured <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> I find this saying better than the one about the bird that flies away, and if it comes back it is yours, if it doesnt, it never was.... If you let someone fly away, you withdraw all contact/ support from that person.... that is not what is needed. By withdrawing from that person, may lead to a higher chance of the person coming back, but that may only be bacause they "need" your support, or because they couldnt find any other support in time. IF you are there, supporting them all the time, yet not being a hinderance to them, they will truely reach their happiness. Chances are that they will find that you are actually the foundation of happiness, they will find that they have all the needed support in you, that you only have their best interest at heart. If you were not their true happiness, at least you were there when they found it, and that will make you a lifetime friend. Sometimes friends are more valued than lovers. )

Lady_rain

Get agressive? Humm... i see, different culture. Here depends a lot of the man what you get, of course have the agressive type as the emotional type and the romantic, i would say that i'm a sad funny romantic type.

Any man can be agressive - but for some cases is more difficult depends a lot of the situation, at least for me and some friends what i know and about the culture here isn't that easy to get agressive, we have more conversation to before get mad, just if the guy is agressive by himself(these ones have to be punished, IMO of course.

talk about aggression, geez .... u guys just made me feel a bit guilty. yes, i'm inwardly aggressive. though i'm not aggresive to people, i am usually to my own self (me & my history of self-inflicted pain). i don't do that anymore. but still ... it's haunting me at the back of my mind.

best cure to aggression? love. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> had it for a short while then lost it. forever or for a period of time? i can't tell. as crusader put it, it's not measured that way.

lady rain, don't give up on hubby now. i think he needs it badly but not knowing or aware of his predicament. we asians have similar problems, in fact worse. almost all don't give out hugs & kisses (i think that may be classified as pornographic behavior <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" /> ), especially in public though kids today do it. yeah, well, kids & their excuse to touch. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> sadly couples who are committedto one another don't. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/sad.gif" alt="" /> my parents are like that. once in a while my mom would love to be hugged or have her hand held but my dad .... how's that saying goes?

MEN! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

i hope i won't end up being so UNromantic after i commit my love.

Yo Jang, at least you're not a bad man, as you said you are not like you was any more and your cure was the love. Man talk about these things make me think too much about everything. This life is hard man, but now is time to make money. Right? At least for me, i still not rich and well succeed(correct spell?)
but i'll be and with my love at my side in the right time, this are dreams, that's all i can say.

And start to be what i want.


Hehehehe... these final words was nice! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/stupid.gif" alt="" />

u have my moral support, Shyon. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/up.gif" alt="" />

remember .... Seek Ye First The Kingdom Of Money. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/delight.gif" alt="" />

& those who love your money will flock around u. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

if life is easy, my friend, we won't struggle at all & life may not be worth living.

Things would be so simple if people all over the world realise that Gods gave us our body in order to use it, love it and have it as a "tool" in a way in order to express what we feel. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Dear oh dear Luc, you sure made a point there Hon <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/kissyou.gif" alt="" />

And yet that tool can become a sledge hammer if your love gives of themselves that which in vows they promised only to give to you. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/disagree.gif" alt="" />


Kyra_Ny

I whant to get rid of this embryo of a headache <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/puppyeyes.gif" alt="" />.

Übereil

@ ubs Would you like me to mail you some headache tabbies????

People should realise the power they have.... they have the power to break people, by merely not being responsible enough with the feelings we entrust to them.

We trust them with our very hearts, they should have the responsibility to keep it safe...

Love is all about keeping your partner's needs on high priority. I am not saying higher than your own, but still high priority. Making your partner happy, ensures your own happiness. Making them cry, MAY make you laugh.... but only for a while..... after that you will cry too.

Desconsider what was write here, i didn't finished my text cause i had to get away at that time and couldn't finished my idea. Later i'll post the right thing.