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I like to quote the lyrics of "Nerdy" by Poison The Well
Why do your eyes paralyze me What makes me feel this way Just carry me away with silence and heartbeats As rapid thinking about your embrace and how it makes me feel I just want to feel this way forever Sleep on portraits painted as perfect as you Why have I been given the chance to fly When I'm not with you I feel lesser alone I remember your face / imprinted on angels Your voice as beautiful / as the sounds of waves crashing against my heart Time slows down when you look at me I'm infatuated with this / infatuated with you It's so hard for me to understand why I hadn't found you before don't dull away hold my hand
It's one of these days...
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I do agree that true love is hard work....
I also believe that the recipe (shortened version) is 2 people trying to be the person of the other one's dreams.
and i agree with the part where you said, if you cant live with the person forever, RUN.... unfortunately its not always that easy to run... often you only see the full person after a long time... by then you may be fairly dependent in that relationship..... but i do agree....
I think in that situation, you do "nothing" (not visibly at least), but without drawing attention to what you are really doing, you work on becomming independent, and keep your focus at the end of the tunnel
I agree that all the things we said previously here, are things that you do because you love the other person....
Even when you love your partner dearly, you dont always know how to react to their needs and emotions.... and that is why i started this.... in an attempt to find out.... and also in an attempt to make someone else understand... If 1 person can make his/her partner smile because of this thread, then i will also smile.
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When we walk in a crowd, i want to hold hands, or have our arms around each other, i want us to look at the people and feel lucky to have each other, i want us to smile when we see a sign of a hardship that we have been through, because we have survived it.
When we talk, i want us to talk about the small things, the big things, i want us to share our feelings, not only about each other, but also about others, to tell each other of the people we have met, how we reacted to them, what we felt for them (even if its more than it should be, because this builds trust)... I want us to learn something new about each other every day...
Your existence alone, is excuse enough for the creation of the entire universe… Il you my darling Jeanne-Dré
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No comments on my previous post?
About running if you don't feel you can spend the rest of your life with your current partner:
Isn't that pretty obvious?
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Brain: an apparatus with which we think we think.
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Ubs you r previous post is true to your style... very informative.... and very true <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
No its not always obvious... when you love, you always thinks its just another obstacle... you will get over it.... or it will change....
sad news, it doesnt <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/disagree.gif" alt="" />
and currently all i can think that i want is....
for this [SENSORED] [SENSORED] [SENSORED] [SENSORED] [SENSORED] [SENSORED] [SENSORED] Cramp to go away <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/memad.gif" alt="" />
(now who wished that one on me????????? )
Your existence alone, is excuse enough for the creation of the entire universe… Il you my darling Jeanne-Dré
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But on the other hand, since your love will end in four years (max) you won't love him/her forever, and since you know this you don't make any lifelong decisions before that. And this guy Cramp... Is he your boyfriend? Then if you feel that way about him, have you ever considerred leaving him? Übereil PS It's nice to be young and healthy, isn't it? DS
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PS It's nice to be young and healthy, isn't it? DS Yep but you still have no girlfriend. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> So you can expect a lot more than 4 years. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/badsmile2.gif" alt="" /> Barta
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Brain: an apparatus with which we think we think.
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Ask to spick he knows. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/XmasEek.gif" alt="" /> Barta
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Nope this cramp is thank heavens not guy related.... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/silly.gif" alt="" /> I and yes its nice to be young and healthy.... (if you dont count the 5 days of agony every 8 months or so.....)
and about the 4 years , i said LOVE not IN-Love.... so thats after teh 4 year timespan.... thats normally also when they show their true colours....
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"Interplay.some zombiefied unlife thing going on there" - skavenhorde at RPGWatch
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I want someone who appreciates what I give, and who's offers I can appreciate.
Someone who is a friend, who I can talk with and have a two-way conversation about interesting topics.
Someone who realises what is happening in their life and can understand what problems are there and can deal with them, or ask for assistance, before they get out of control.
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I want friends who can go on a goose chase with me and not think it is silly, i want friends who can laugh WITH me, i want friends like you.....
Your existence alone, is excuse enough for the creation of the entire universe… Il you my darling Jeanne-Dré
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to Fafnir & Kyra, Lady Rain & her man Cramp(?) -> i hope to have such beautiful experience of love just as what u have. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/xmassmiley.gif" alt="" />
but for now i am in contentment with myself. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/up.gif" alt="" />
......a gift from LaFille......
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Cramp is not a man, or even a person....it's just a cramp....... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ROFL.gif" alt="" />
Communication is the key.....as long as we are all on the same wavelength..... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/XmasJump.gif" alt="" />
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hmmmm that would explain a LOT of things about my other half...... his left antenna is BROKEN!!!!!!!
(he is deaf in one ear) <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/evilgrin1.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/evilgrin1.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/evilgrin1.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/evilgrin1.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/evilgrin1.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/evilgrin1.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/evilgrin1.gif" alt="" />
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I and yes its nice to be young and healthy.... (if you dont count the 5 days of agony every 8 months or so.....) Sweet Sweet by Smashing Pumpkins Sweet sweet sweet sweet little agony I don't know just where you've been But I'll take take take All that you have for me In sin Where are we going? And they all want you to change And they all want you to change And the sad sad sad All the sad faces drown In this town Where are we going? And they all want you to change Where are we going? And they all want you to change Where are we going? Übereil PS Being on the same whavelenght is one of the key things of getting along (I think) DS
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PS Being on the same whavelenght is one of the key things of getting along (I think) DS
Übereil Yes and a little more... It is always better to ask for what was really meant when something is said, than to jump to conclusions. We each have had different life experiences growing up and what holds one meaning to us may hold a totally different meaning to our love. In other words we may interpret our love being flippant to us when they were really being kind and loving to us. Kyra_Ny <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/xmassmiley.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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very very well said <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> When i get home, i feel great when i see you happy about my return, i feel special when you smile at me, i feel loved when i get a hug.
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When I wake-up my heart melts; because, every morning you leave a love note, telling me how much you love me. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/kissyou.gif" alt="" />
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Interesting, so many things to say about true love, so many experiences.
I would like to tell you to something about, but i still don't had this chance yet. But i believe this moment will come, like came for many of you here.
I took about 25min to write just that, cause i thinked too much about many things and about everything what all of you wrote here before.
Who's gonna show you how to fly!
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