@ Al -> way to go! never mind it's still too early. enjoy the blooming. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

@ Lady Rain -> Cleg has a great idea. if i'm not mistaken, meditation doesn't take hours or to be alone to do it. u have to create that environment in your head, not around u for it to happen. it can be around lunch time, or drive back from work, while installing stuff on computer etc. there are many ways of meditation. do find out which is right for u! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

@ Cleg -> thanks for the idea. never thought of it. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/up.gif" alt="" />

@ Ube -> i used to scoff at my aunt's words 'one day when u look back, u'll laugh at things u took so seriously when it's just not a big deal at all'. now it comes back to me & i do feel that i was rather silly in my youth yet i enjoyed it much despite the many pains i had to go through (some were & still are the worst pain i have experienced). sop yes, one way to look at your life is to picture yourself in the future looking back into the past. that way, u view 'now' as past which is to be made to achieve what & where u want to be in the future where u envision yourself to be as u look into the past.

hope u get what i say. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />



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